a choice that is not really chosen

"After we wrapped shooting [for the season in 2007], I just wanted to go home to Louisiana and finish high school, be a cheerleader, all that. Then I found out I was pregnant. I was 16. I'd had one boyfriend," she shares in the magazine's March issue. "It doesn't make it perfect or all right. But I was judged for something that probably most everyone does. I was young. I was in love. I was like every other teenager, except I had this last name. And I made a decision that is forever my decision." - Jamie Lynn Spears 


So today, I read an article about Jamie Lynn Spears, the popular sister of Britney Spears (whom I really admire for her roller coaster life and her survival), I was surprised about everything that she confessed. The real story behind her teenage pregnancy is really unknown to me. Its only now that I got the gossips and real points. 


What is striking in the story is her confession. Yes, truly, in life you are given hundreds of choices that one is getting paranoid what to choose and - tragic if none -. This is what I learned today - from young mom Jamie, if you are not given any option in the world, just keep going, accept it and be brave. She experienced to be gazed after by critics simply because of her surname. It was not normal at all. 


I would have never known that until I went through what I went through.


Now she knew, its all planned after all. She maybe in a silent mode by now, not sought after, but happy and contented. That is precious.